{"id":273,"date":"2015-03-20T13:32:41","date_gmt":"2015-03-20T20:32:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.WellSayIDo.com\/?p=273"},"modified":"2015-03-31T15:54:07","modified_gmt":"2015-03-31T22:54:07","slug":"cold-feet","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wellsayido.com\/?p=273","title":{"rendered":"Cold Feet!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Every couple is different, so every wedding is different.\u00a0 But, in my experience, some ceremonies are &#8216;more different than others&#8217;, if you know what I mean.<\/p>\n<p>I was meeting with Anthony and Lezlie about their upcoming ceremony.\u00a0 &#8220;We want to get married in the lake near our house,&#8221; they told me.\u00a0 I tried to clarify:\u00a0&#8220;Did you mean, you want to get married on the lake <em>shore<\/em>, or on a <em>boat<\/em> out on the water?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Neither one,&#8221; Anthony told me, &#8220;we want to be <em>standing in the water<\/em>, a few feet in, so the water comes up to our ankles.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Hmm, I did a quick calculation: a late-December wedding, just outside of Temecula.\u00a0 Exactly how cold was that water going to be?\u00a0 &#8220;No problem,&#8221; he said, &#8220;it&#8217;ll be 58 degrees, no colder.&#8221;\u00a0 Didn&#8217;t sound <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">too<\/span> bad, right?<\/p>\n<p>Wrong.<a href=\"http:\/\/www.WellSayIDo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/AnthonyLezlie-Lake.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-274\" src=\"http:\/\/www.WellSayIDo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/AnthonyLezlie-Lake-213x300.jpg\" alt=\"AnthonyLezlie-Lake\" width=\"213\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/wellsayido.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/AnthonyLezlie-Lake-213x300.jpg 213w, https:\/\/wellsayido.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/AnthonyLezlie-Lake-726x1024.jpg 726w, https:\/\/wellsayido.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/AnthonyLezlie-Lake.jpg 775w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 213px) 100vw, 213px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Fortunately, I focus so much on my <em>couples<\/em> during a ceremony, I rarely notice my <em>own<\/em> situation.\u00a0 Lezlie and Anthony had a great time, though, so All&#8217;s Well That Ends Well, no problem.<\/p>\n<p>It was only after the ceremony was over and I was walking over to my wife (who, bless her heart, was carrying a towel for my feet), that\u00a0I realized how <em>freezing<\/em> that water had been!<\/p>\n<p>Maybe Anthony meant to say, &#8220;58 degrees <em>below<\/em>&#8220;?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Every couple is different, so every wedding is different.\u00a0 But, in my experience, some ceremonies are &#8216;more different than others&#8217;, if you know what I mean. I was meeting with Anthony and Lezlie about their upcoming ceremony.\u00a0 &#8220;We want to get married in the lake near our house,&#8221; they told me.\u00a0 I tried to clarify:\u00a0&#8220;Did [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-273","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","6":"category-richs-blog","7":"entry"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/wellsayido.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/273","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/wellsayido.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/wellsayido.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wellsayido.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wellsayido.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=273"}],"version-history":[{"count":9,"href":"https:\/\/wellsayido.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/273\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":301,"href":"https:\/\/wellsayido.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/273\/revisions\/301"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/wellsayido.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=273"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wellsayido.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=273"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wellsayido.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=273"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}